Yesterday while having a haircut, I read from a magazine something I thought was the answer to my heart's question. why do some guys leave you hanging? The article said this seems to be a natural thing for guys who love the thrill of fresh romance. But when a relationship goes on further to develop a certain commitment, or some sort of seriousness, the thrill naturally just... fades away. It's not because the guy loves you less through time, it's just that he is not made for a long-term relationship. Thus he's called a 'short-term guy'. How do you know the guy you're dating is a short-term guy? the article cited these signs: 1) He is unusually affectionate on the first few weeks and month's of a relationship. but his affection wanes eventually (gosh, this is a very difficult sign) 2) He doesn't want to talk about serious things. 3) he doesn't tell his plans (if he has any) about the two of you.
I never thought I'd fall for a short-term guy. I always thought he was the one. I guess the signs were all around me but I was just too in love to notice them. sheesh.
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